Skipping Small Talk Can Cost You Big
by Jackson Hull
In the dynamic realm of systems integration, the synergy between technical proficiency and interpersonal relationships is vital. While technical challenges often take center stage, the subtle art of small talk can significantly influence project success. Research underscores that casual conversations are not mere pleasantries but foundational elements that foster trust, collaboration, and effective risk management.
The Strategic Value of Small Talk
An article highlighted by the Harvard Business Review argues that we need to make time for small talk. https://hbr.org/2021/02/make-time-for-small-talk-in-your-virtual-meetings
The article mentioned a CEO named Jorge who admitted his staff meetings consisted of 40% small talk. It goes on to say, “Jorge rightly believes that continuing his team’s extraordinary level of performance depends on maintaining and growing the culture he’s spent the past few years instilling in the company and among his team”.
Building Relationships Through Small Talk
Strong partnerships often start with strong relationships. For systems integrators, this lesson is crucial: Relationship-building isn’t just about business. A trusted Salesforce partner invests in understanding both the professional and personal dynamics of a project team, ensuring smoother collaboration and communication down the line.
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Surfacing Risks Before They Become Roadblocks
One key discussion point is how to address risks early—particularly when they involve internal politics. In one professional development scenario I led recently, I had the team role-play a situation where a CEO’s nephew was deeply involved in a project, raising concerns about objectivity and potential conflict. Instead of avoiding the topic, I directed the consultants to work through strategies to surface the risk in a constructive way.
For systems integrators, this underscores the importance of a Salesforce partner who is not just technically proficient but is also not adept at navigating sensitive discussions. A skilled partner helps identify potential issues before they escalate, ensuring that projects stay on track and relationships remain intact.
Another article from Harvard Business Review calls for an emphasis on Psychological safety. “Team psychological safety is a shared belief held by members of a team that it’s OK to take risks, to express their ideas and concerns, to speak up with questions, and to admit mistakes.” Says Amy Gallo. This is vital for SI’s, SF Partners, and Consultants to understand because Small talk creates psychological safety. John Sundholm says that, “psychological safety is vital to successful teams, and small talk helps foster it.”
Technical Expertise Alone Isn’t Enough
Beyond risk management, the role-play scenario also highlighted another key factor for systems integrators: A Salesforce partner should not just be a service provider but a strategic enabler. A good SF partner should identify skill gaps, facilitate learning, and ensure that both technical and business needs are met. A great partner doesn’t just execute tasks; they empower teams to navigate complexities with confidence.
The Role of Consultants as Leaders, Not Order-Takers
Perhaps the most significant takeaway from the discussion was the true role of consultants. The team agreed that successful consultants act as leaders—proactively guiding projects, facilitating discussions, and ensuring alignment across all stakeholders. We are not mere order-takers but trusted advisors who drive business outcomes.
For systems integrators seeking a Salesforce partner, this distinction is crucial. The right partner doesn’t just implement solutions; they take ownership, challenge assumptions, bring insights and discover risk. They help bridge the gap between business and technology, ensuring that projects deliver real, measurable value.
Conclusion: The Right Partner Makes All the Difference
In an environment where risks are inevitable, having a Salesforce partner who can navigate challenges, communicate effectively, and lead strategically is invaluable. For systems integrators, the right partnership means more than just technical expertise—it means having a trusted advisor who understands business dynamics, proactively manages risks, and ensures project success.
Whether it’s through casual conversations that build trust, strategic risk management, or addressing technical gaps, the right team focused on people-first concerns is a game-changer. If you’re looking for a partner who brings both expertise and leadership to your SI, choose one who understands not just the technology but the people and processes that drive success.
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